Booking your first psychic reading is a moment filled with a unique blend of emotions. There is the spark of excitement about the possibilities, a deep curiosity about the unknown, and—let’s be honest—likely a flutter of nervousness or skepticism. You might be asking yourself: Will they know everything about me? What if they see something bad? How do I make sure I’m not wasting my time?
These questions are entirely normal. In fact, they are a sign that you are approaching this experience with the respect and gravity it deserves.
At 76psychics.com, we believe that a psychic reading shouldn't be a passive experience where you sit silently while someone predicts a fixed fate. Instead, we view a reading as a co-creative collaboration. It is a spiritual consultation designed to clarify your current energy, illuminate your blind spots, and empower you to make the best choices for your future.
To get the most out of this profound experience, preparation is key. A great reading doesn't just happen because the psychic is talented; it happens because the client is prepared, open, and aligned.
This comprehensive guide will walk you through every step of the process—from the mental shifts required before you even book, to the practical questions you should ask, and finally, how to integrate the wisdom you receive.
Phase 1: Mental Preparation & Managing Expectations
Before you look at a schedule or choose a reader, the first step happens in your own mind. Misconceptions about what a psychic reading is can lead to disappointment. Understanding the mechanics of intuition and "future casting" ensures you walk away satisfied.
The Myth of the "Fixed Future" vs. The Reality of Free Will
The biggest misconception first-time clients have is the idea that the future is a movie that has already been filmed, and the psychic is simply describing the scenes to you. This is the "Fortune Teller" trap.
If the future were 100% set in stone, there would be no point in getting a reading because you wouldn't be able to change anything.
The Reality: Life is a combination of Destiny (certain soul contracts or lessons you agreed to experience) and Free Will (the choices you make every day). Think of a psychic reading like a GPS system. A psychic can look at your current "vehicle" (your energy, mindset, and actions) and tell you exactly where you are headed right now. They might say, "If you continue on this road at this speed, you will arrive at a breakup in three months."
However, because you have free will, you can choose to turn the wheel. You can change your speed. You can take a detour. A good psychic empowers you to change the destination, not just accept it. When you prepare for your reading, let go of the need for "guarantees" and instead look for "guidance."
The Paradox of the Open Mind
You will often hear the advice: "Keep an open mind." But what does that actually mean?
For many, skepticism is a defense mechanism. You might be afraid of being scammed, or afraid of being seen as gullible. This can lead to a "closed off" energy where you unconsciously block the psychic. Imagine trying to have a conversation with someone who has their arms crossed and is staring at the floor; it’s hard to connect.
How to hold a constructive open mind:
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Be Skeptical, But Receptive: You don't have to believe everything immediately. It is healthy to analyze the information. However, during the session, suspend your disbelief. Allow the information to flow without immediately blocking it with "That can't be true."
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Release Specific Outcomes: If you go into a reading desperate to hear only that your ex is coming back, you will block any other helpful guidance. If the psychic sees that a new, better partner is coming, but you are fixated on the ex, you might reject a beautiful prediction because it wasn't the specific one you wanted.
Setting Your Intention
The universe responds to frequency and intention. Before you book your reading on 76psychics.com, ask yourself: Why am I doing this?
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Are you seeking Clarity? (I am confused about a choice).
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Are you seeking Validation? (I feel like I’m on the right path, but I need confirmation).
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Are you seeking Closure? (I need to understand why something ended).
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Are you seeking Connection? (I want to hear from a loved one who has passed).
Write this intention down. It acts as a beacon for your spirit guides and helps you select the right type of reader.
Phase 2: Practical Preparation & Crafting Your Questions
The quality of the answers you receive is directly related to the quality of the questions you ask.
Many first-time clients waste valuable minutes of their session asking questions that lead to dead ends. A psychic can certainly do a "general reading" where they just tell you what they see, but if you have specific concerns, you need to ask specific questions.
The Trap of "Yes/No" Questions
Avoid questions that can be answered with a simple "Yes" or "No." These are disempowering because they strip you of your agency.
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Bad Question: "Will I get the job?"
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Why it’s weak: It assumes you are passive. It also doesn't give you any advice on how to improve your chances.
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Better Question: "What do I need to know about the interview process, and what can I do to align myself with this career opportunity?"
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Why it’s strong: It asks for actionable advice and looks at the energy surrounding the situation.
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The "Timing" Question
Everyone wants to know when. "When will I get married?" "When will I be rich?" Time is fluid in the spiritual realm. Spirit guides often do not own watches. They see things in terms of "divine timing" or "sequential events" (e.g., "This will happen after you heal your relationship with your father").
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Instead of: "When will I meet my soulmate?"
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Ask: "What internal blocks do I need to clear to be ready for my soulmate, and what signs should I look for that they are coming?"
30 Powerful Questions to Ask During Your First Reading
To help you prepare, here is a categorized list of high-value questions. Pick 3-5 of these to focus on during your session.
Love and Relationships:
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What is the primary lesson I am meant to learn from my current relationship?
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Why do I keep attracting the same type of toxic partner?
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What is the energy between me and [Name] right now?
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How can I best support my partner through their current struggle?
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Is there a past life connection affecting my current relationship?
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What does my heart need to heal before I can love again?
Career and Finance: 7. What steps can I take to align my career with my soul’s purpose? 8. I am feeling stuck at work; what is the root cause of this stagnation? 9. What are my strongest hidden talents that I am not utilizing? 10. Is the business idea I have in alignment with my highest good? 11. What is blocking the flow of abundance into my life? 12. How can I improve my relationship with money?
Life Path and Spirituality: 13. What is my soul’s purpose in this lifetime? 14. Who are my primary spirit guides, and how can I connect with them? 15. What energy is coming into my life in the next six months? 16. What is a major blind spot in my life right now that I’m not seeing? 17. How can I develop my own intuition?
Family and Home: 18. How can I heal the rift between me and my sibling? 19. What does my child need from me right now that they aren't saying? 20. Is the energy in my home clear, or does it need cleansing?
Selecting the Right Advisor on 76psychics.com
Not all psychics are the same. Just as you wouldn't go to a podiatrist for a heart problem, you shouldn't go to a Medium if you want Astrological timing.
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Clairvoyants: Best for "seeing" future trajectories and visual symbols. Great for general life readings.
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Mediums: Specialists in connecting with deceased loved ones. Choose this if your only goal is to talk to someone who has passed.
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Tarot Readers: Excellent for specific questions, analyzing complex situations, and looking at cause-and-effect.
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Empaths/Clairsentients: Great for relationship readings and understanding how others feel about you.
Read the profiles. Look at the reviews. But most importantly—trust your gut. If you see a photo or read a bio and feel a sudden pull or a sense of warmth, that is your intuition telling you that this is the right match.
Phase 3: Energetic Preparation & The Environment
You have your mindset right, and you have your questions ready. Now, you need to prepare your vessel (your body) and your space.
A psychic connection is an energetic link. If your energy is scattered, chaotic, or toxic, the connection will be like trying to tune a radio through heavy static.
The 24-Hour Pre-Reading Protocol
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Avoid Intoxicants: Do not drink alcohol or use recreational drugs at least 24 hours before a reading. These substances create "holes" in your aura and can cloud the information coming through. You want to be as clear-headed as possible.
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Hydrate: Water is a conductor of energy. Being well-hydrated actually helps the intuitive flow.
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Rest: If you are exhausted, your vibration is low. Try to get a good night's sleep before your appointment.
Creating Your Sacred Space (For Phone/Online Readings)
Since 76psychics.com offers remote readings, the environment is up to you. Do not take a reading while driving, while shopping, or while at work.
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Privacy is Paramount: You cannot be vulnerable if you are worried your roommate or spouse is listening in the next room. Go to a private room, your car (parked!), or a quiet outdoor spot.
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Remove Distractions: Turn off the TV. Silence notifications on your phone. Put the dog in the other room. You need 100% focus.
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Set the Mood: This signals to your subconscious that "something special is happening." Light a candle. Burn some sage or incense. Have a comfortable chair. Have a notebook and pen ready.
A Pre-Reading Grounding Meditation (5 Minutes)
About 10 minutes before your call, sit quietly and do this simple visualization to "ground" your energy. This makes you easier to read.
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Sit comfortably with your feet flat on the floor.
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Close your eyes and take three deep breaths, inhaling through the nose and sighing out through the mouth.
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Visualize roots growing from the soles of your feet, going down through the floor, through the dirt, deep into the center of the Earth.
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Imagine pulling up red, stabilizing energy from the Earth through those roots, filling your legs, your torso, and your heart.
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Visualize a bubble of white light surrounding your entire body. This is your safe space. Only truth and love may enter this bubble.
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Say silently: "I am open to receiving guidance for my highest good. I am grounded. I am ready."
Phase 4: During the Reading—Etiquette and Engagement
The phone rings. You pick up. The session has begun. How do you act?
The "Validation" Balance
There is a delicate balance between being a "Stone Wall" and an "Open Book."
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The Stone Wall: Some skeptics sit in total silence, refusing to even say "yes" or "no" because they want the psychic to "prove" everything. This restricts the flow of energy. It’s like refusing to pedal on a tandem bike.
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The Open Book: Some clients are so nervous they ramble, telling the psychic their whole life story in the first minute. This doesn't give the psychic a chance to use their intuition.
The Solution: The "Respiratory Link." When the psychic says something correct, validate it verbally. Say, "Yes, that makes sense," or "Yes, that is my sister." This verbal confirmation acts like a green light, encouraging the psychic’s energy to flow deeper in that direction. If they are wrong, simply say, "I can't place that right now."
Managing Emotions
It is very common to cry during a reading. Psychics are working with energy, and often they touch upon repressed emotions or grief. Do not apologize for crying. Your reader has seen it all. Tears are a release of energy. If you feel the need to cry, let it out. It often clears the way for a major breakthrough in the reading.
Taking Notes and Recording
Psychic Amnesia is real. Because a reading alters your brain waves (shifting you into an Alpha or Theta state), you will likely forget 50% of what was said the moment you hang up.
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Ask for permission to record: Most psychics on 76psychics.com are happy for you to record the session. Use a voice recorder app on your phone or computer.
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Take handwritten notes: Writing down key phrases helps ground the information immediately.
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Highlight "Homework": If the psychic suggests a specific book, crystal, or action, write it down immediately.
Phase 5: Post-Reading Integration—The Real Work Begins
The reading is over, but the experience isn't. The most important part of a psychic reading is what you do after you hang up the phone.
Immediate Aftermath: Grounding
You might feel "floaty," slightly dizzy, or incredibly tired. This is "energy hang."
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Eat something: Earthy foods like chocolate, nuts, or bread help bring you back into your body.
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Drink water: Flush out the toxins released by emotional processing.
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Touch nature: Step outside and touch a tree or stand on the grass.
The 48-Hour Rule
Do not make major life decisions within 48 hours of a reading. You are in a heightened emotional state. Even if the psychic said, "You need to quit your job," don't call your boss five minutes later. Let the information settle. Sleep on it. Allow your logical brain to reintegrate with your intuitive brain.
Reviewing the Recording
Wait a week before listening to your recording. You will be amazed at how different it sounds.
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New Insights: You will hear things you completely missed the first time because you were focused on something else.
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The "Wait and See" File: Sometimes a psychic will say something that makes no sense at the time. Don't discard it. Write it down. Six months from now, you might meet a "man with a red hat" and suddenly realize the prediction was accurate, just premature.
Avoiding "Reading Addiction"
This is a serious ethical consideration. Psychic readings feel good. They provide comfort and a dopamine hit of certainty. This can be addictive. If you find yourself wanting to book another reading three days later to ask the same questions because you are anxious, stop. Guideline: We generally recommend waiting at least 3 to 6 months between general life readings. Allow time for the predictions to unfold and for you to do the work. The cards cannot live your life for you.
Conclusion: You Are the Captain
A psychic reading is a tool in your spiritual toolkit. It is a map, a flashlight, and a compass. But remember: You are the one driving the car.
No prediction is more powerful than your own free will. If a psychic gives you a positive prediction, you still have to put in the work to manifest it. If they give you a warning, you have the power to change your course and avoid it.
By preparing your mind, clarifying your questions, and creating a sacred space, you transform a simple phone call into a life-changing ceremony.
Are you ready to see what the universe has in store for you?
Browse our directory of gifted, vetted advisors at 76psychics.com today. Trust your intuition, pick the reader who resonates with you, and take the first step toward clarity. Your guides are waiting to speak with you.
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